Children clinic

I saw two well-dolled up mothers at a recent visit to a baby/children clinic. Some of the things that I noticed about them are:

For the first lady:
1) Her face has make-up with mascara
2) She carried a Prada bag
3) Her fingernails are well-done up with shiny paint
4) She seemed to be in her twenties and her hubby is in his 30s-40s.

For the second lady:

1) Her face is also well-make up
2) She wears a white translucent T-shirt that shows her bra colour
3) Her legs have wounds or bruises from injuries(maybe from riding motorbike)
4) She has a maid

These observations point to extravagance. I wonder how much their respective husband is spending on her handbag, her fingernails and the maid etc... What is their top priority? Is it the children, handbag, fingernail, make-up or fun?